Betsy’s Wedding (1990) [review]

Alan Alda made a great comedy here, in which he created characters in a situation that so many of us have been involved. This does not necessarily have that much to do with the wedding itself, but the build up and the two families involved.

From Betsy’s (Molly Ringwald) and Jake Lovell (Dylan Walsh) who are to be married, we see them completely in love, to considering if they are doing the right thing, to trying to please all the members of their families. Then there are the family members who are more than willing to get themselves involved in the arrangements, without any consideration for what the couple really want for their wedding day.

This nicely shows the differences between the two families, their views on each other and individual ideals for not only the wedding, but the world in general. Betsy’s family being a more down to earth, hard working family compared to Jake’s who are more conservative and wealthier. To the point where they seem a little less involved in what is going on in the world… Almost as if the world is there for their entertainment.

Eddie Hopper’s (Alan Alda) has become a little ambitious in his work and has bitten of more than he can chew, involving himself with his brother in law Oscar Henner (Joe Pesci), who is in business with Georgie (Burt Young)… who Eddie and Oscar cannot say no to. This leads to Connie Hopper (Ally Sheedy) finding herself  getting to know Stevie Dee (Anthony Lapaglia) which due to their jobs is a joy to watch as the two go back and forth.

The relationship between Gloria Henner and Oscar is entertaining to watch as neither is truly happy with their marriage and therefore more is going on than either would like to admit… at least to each other.

All of this is done nicely, watching the relationships become entangled as tensions build as moments become more and more difficult. But, the film does it with such humour.  We see the characters react and endure, showing that life has to be worked at, and we don’t always have the perfect moments which look so effortless from the outside.

We enjoy the moments we find ourselves with these characters which is a great way to spend an hour and a half. So, if you get the chance, check this out and enjoy what is on offer.

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